Pause
What’s important about pausing when a strong emotion is felt?
It could mean the difference between reacting and responding.
Reacting may lead to consequences. Responding may lead to a better result.
Take a breath, pause, ask yourself:
What am I feeling?
Who do I want to be?
How do I want to be seen?
What would I really like to see happen next?
This simple pause is the epitome of emotional intelligence skills of impulse control, stress tolerance, and emotional self-awareness.